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Taught by
Stephen ArmstrongTonight we finish Chapter 4 and head into Chapter 5 of Paul’s letter to Timothy
And in these chapters we find some of the most practical and timeless advice on church life
Paul directs his advice to Timothy as the leader who must carry out the instructions
And it begins with specific instructions for how a pastor must conduct himself in the face of opposition
But Paul quickly moves to addressing how every member of the body must conduct themselves
And in all cases, these commands serve to fulfill Paul’s statement in vs.8-9
Let’s briefly revisit that passage from last week
Paul compared pursuing physical strength to pursuing spiritual strength
And Paul noted that the pursuit of physical strength was of limited value, eternally speaking
Because the body eventually dies, and with it all the strength we gained
But the spirit is eternal, so the strength we obtain spiritually will persist into eternity
Therefore pursuit of spiritual strength, which Paul calls godliness, is a much greater call
It brings benefits now and into eternity
Pursuit of godliness is our highest goal and must take priority over any other pursuit
Paul says in v.9 this is a trustworthy statement, meaning this is a biblical truth that we cannot deny and should not ignore
Today we might say this is “for sure” or “you can bet on it”
In the moments of life when we make an earthly sacrifice to obtain godliness, it may not feel like we’re making the right choice
We may feel like we’re being cheated out of something good
Like when we sacrifice income to serve in the church
Or when we drop bad habits or resist certain temptations to please the Lord
But the Bible says you can trust you made the right call
In eternity, the wisdom of your sacrifice in pursuit of godliness will become evident
The things you gave up, the persecutions you accepted, the mocking you endured, and the effort you made in service to Christ will bring a reward worthy of your sacrifice
So now Paul gives specific ways the church makes sacrifices to reach an eternal goal
Paul says for “this” we labor and strive
“This” refers to Paul’s trustworthy statement concerning the eternal value of godliness
We labor and strive for godliness
The two Greek words for labor and strive carry subtle meaning lost in our English words
To labor means to grow weary
To work so long and hard that we reach a point we feel like quitting, when we’re exhausted from the effort
And to strive really means to fight and struggle
The fight is both against our own flesh and against a fallen world
We fight the enemy, we fight temptation, we fight opposition to the word of God
This is the reality for anyone seeking godliness
We will work until we’re sick and tired of the struggle
We will get discouraged at times and we will grow weary
There will be many days we want to quit the fight
And at every turn, we face an enemy that opposes us
Attacks will come from every direction
And there will be casualties along the way
But Paul says we labor and strive in this way because it’s worth it in the end
But if we’re going to survive, it will only be because we fix our hope on the living God, Christ Himself
If you expect to come through this life with your testimony intact, then you had better be resting on Christ and not your own power
Practically speaking, you have to work with Him, not against Him
Talk less, pray more
Plan a little less, and seek God’s will more
Most of all, understand this pattern is in God’s will and good purposes for us
We can’t allow the difficulty of serving Christ and growing in godliness become our excuse for not pursuing the path
We know it’s going to be hard
And the difficulty serves God’s purpose in us
As James explains
James says we should consider trials to be a good thing
They are good because they produce changes in us
Changes like endurance, patience, humility, repentance
And these changes will bring about a perfect result
We will become perfect and complete, lacking nothing in eternity
That’s our incentive for pressing ahead in this life, seeking to please and emulate Christ
And then Paul adds that this Christ we serve is the Savior of all men, especially believers
This statement has driven some confusion and debate because of Paul’s language
The phrase especially of believers could be rendered “exceedingly for those believing (or faithful)”
Understanding this statement depends on staying in context
Paul’s context is that of fixing our hope on Jesus as we endure in our pursuit of godliness seeking eternal profit
His context is not salvation, so we can’t stray into that topic
By the context we conclude Paul says Jesus is the savior for everyone (all believers)
But He’s especially the Savior for those who live in a believing (or faithful) way
Obviously, the Lord remains Savior for all believers regardless of whether we pursue godliness or not
Even the most disobedient believer among us still has the assurance that Jesus is their Savior
Christ justifies His children from the moment of our faith, and nothing can separate us from the love of God
Simply put, salvation doesn’t turn on our choice to pursue or not pursue godliness
But for those believers who do pursue godliness, fixing their hope on Jesus, for these Jesus is exceedingly their Savior
For them, Jesus is even more a Savior, because they are not only saved in Him, but they are living for Him
Just as we could say that our country’s president is the president of every citizen, yet he is especially the president of those who voted for him
Likewise, Christ is the Savior for every Christian, but He is exceedingly a Savior for those who live in obedience to Him
Moreover, Christ will be exceedingly a Savior to those pursuing godliness because He will be that much more real in their life
They will know Him better as they see Him at work in their lives
And in eternity Jesus will be an even greater Savior because they will receive a greater profit for having pursued godliness
In all these ways, He is exceedingly the Savior of those who are believing or faithful
So with that introduction Paul asks Timothy to prescribe and teach these things
The “things” refers to everything in the letter, both those things before and after this statement
To prescribe means to set a requirement before the congregation
And to teach means to explain the reasoning behind the requirement so that the church will have good reason to obey
Paul is exhorting Timothy (and all teachers and preachers) not to shy away from sharing the difficult truths of our faith
Paul reminds us that we do not have the latitude to cherry pick what the church hears
We are under order to teach the whole counsel of God’s word
Including teaching about the need to pursue godliness
And the opportunity for eternal reward
And of course all the other details Paul covers in this letter
Paul seems to have known that bad times were coming for the church as he said at the outset of this chapter
Times when pastors would stop teaching these things to their congregations
Today, most believers, even mature ones, have little appreciation of these things
And if we don’t appreciate the need to labor and strive for godliness, how likely are we to pursue it?
Paul’s first prescription is directed to Timothy and all leaders God raises up in the church
Because most of us aren’t preachers or pastors, I’m going to run through this list highlighting a few key principles
First, a pastor’s or teacher’s authority isn’t found in physical qualities or earthly achievements
Paul says in v.12 that Timothy couldn’t let his weaknesses in that respect cause him to shrink back from his mission
Others might accuse him of being too young or unqualified, but Timothy should know otherwise
In v.14 Paul reminds Timothy that he was installed according to the Spirit, Who manifested God’s approval of Timothy through the presbytery
The presbytery refers to the council of elders
God bestowed Timothy with a spiritual gift
And Timothy was ordained by laying on of hands, as we discussed in Chapter 1
And prophetic statements were made concerning his future in the church
These things alone were enough to validate Timothy
Paul’s first point is that if God is for you, who can be against you?
The carnal within the church will only respect a certain kind of leader
But God selects whoever He desires, and often the one you didn’t see coming
Even Paul himself faced the same kind of resistance
Secondly, Paul says that because Timothy will always be under attack and scrutiny, he must be diligent to serve properly in God’s power
First, Timothy must continue in the ministry of God’s word
Specifically, read the word publicly, exhort the church to obey and teach them why these things are right
All three steps are part of the ministry of God’s word
A church that fosters personal Bible study but never reads and preaches God’s word from the pulpit is not obeying this command
Or a church that has readings of scripture during the service but never explains it, much less commands us to obey, is wrong also
We must move in all three areas
Reading the word publicly reminds the body of Christ that the authority for our gathering is found in God’s word
By reading it out loud before the congregation, we ensure that all hear it as it was written, without editing
We can then judge the pastor’s teaching against what was read
And we come to see that the pastor’s instructions are the natural outworking of God’s word
Secondly, the pastor exhorts us to obey
We all receive many instructions from many directions
Don’t run, no right turn on red, please recycle...
Please take out the trash, or do your homework...
But with each direction comes a choice of whether to obey, and we all know that our obedience isn’t guaranteed
But if we have someone who cares for us calling for our obedience, then the chances we will heed what we hear go way up
In this case, Paul says Timothy must exhort the word of God
Proper exhortation means emphasizing the intended response to the word of God
It requires the teacher explain the meaning of the text properly and then apply it in keeping with the author’s intentions
When we do this, we speak with true authority, because we echo the intentions of God Himself as reflected in His word
Such exhortation works to elicit the correct and necessary response from the congregation
But also, notice that reading and exhorting is not enough either
The body of Christ is called to obey Christ’s commands, but not out of ignorance
In His grace, the Lord has equipped teachers and pastors in the church to ensure we have an understanding of why we should obey
So Paul asks Timothy to teach God’s word
Teaching is making scripture understandable in a way that encourages our obedience
As God told Israel through the prophet Isaiah
That’s the Lord’s heart for His people
Just as we encourage our children’s obedience by giving them an understanding of why our rules are sensible, so does the Lord explain Himself in His word
The more we understand in His word, the easier obedience will become
It’s always a struggle, but -
When a pastor commands his flocks to obey but withholds a biblical explanation for why, they will either misrepresent scripture or they will make obedience harder
Many false teachers make a living out of issuing exhortations without (proper) biblical explanation or support
And even in the best cases, a preacher who exhorts but doesn’t teach the Bible is speaking without authority
And he isn’t helping his congregation gain an appreciation for the authority of the word
Likewise, Paul tells Timothy not to neglect his spiritual gift, which was likely evangelism or pastor-teacher
To neglect a spiritual gift means to set it aside, to refrain from operating in it
For example, if someone has the gift of evangelist but doesn’t spend time engaged in witnessing, they are neglecting their gift
On the other hand, it’s possible to pursue to use of a gift while still neglecting it
For example, if someone has the gift to teach but failed to spend the necessary time in study, they are neglecting their gift
They may still teach, but they come unprepared
Because the gift of teaching is a gift to understand and relate scripture, but like all gifts it depends on an exercise of effort in diligence
Paul’s warning Timothy not to get distracted
Don’t get so busy defending himself or building the church or accomplishing other mundane earthly tasks that he forgets the main thing
And the main thing is to serve God in the gift He assigned Timothy
And certainly this is an ever-present threat to pastors
Many pastors today become mini-CEOs of their churches, wrapped up in everything except teaching the Bible
Many of them are neglecting their spiritual gift, I fear
Instead, Paul tells Timothy and all pastors to take pains with these things
This verse is translated in a loose way owing to the difficulty of the original Greek language
It could be translated “study these things, give yourself over to them...”
“These things” refers to the proper duties of a pastor, teaching, exhorting, operating in his gift
In other words, Timothy didn’t need a hobby or another job or any other distraction
He needed to be completely absorbed in becoming a man of God leading the flock by teaching God’s word
Here again, a sober reminder to pastors today that they should not lost focus on the one thing they are called to do
Finally, Paul tells Timothy that he must conduct himself as an example to those who believe, that is to the church
This command is the lynchpin of everything Paul has said to Timothy
Timothy is already swimming upstream in his role as pastor
He’s young, inexperienced
Half Gentile, half Jew and untrained
Yet he’s going to have the burden of exhorting those under his charge to obey the word of God even as he explains it
So it’s vital that Timothy show himself to be an example to all who believe, to those he pastors
If he gives them any ammunition, they will surely take shots
And how can he expect his audience to listen to his counsel if he doesn’t comport himself in the right way?
He doesn’t have natural authority to stand on
He only has the word of God and his own integrity as a man serving God
So if he becomes known as a hypocrite, he’ll lose the credibility to exhort others
First, Paul tells Timothy in v.12 to watch his speech, conduct, love, faith and purity
Speech refers to poorly chosen words, whether unkind, hurtful, coarse or indiscrete...
Everything a pastor says is being measured and observed
Even a single idle word can undermine a pastor’s ability to lead the flock
Conduct refers to the pastor’s lifestyle
A pastor’s lifestyle should comport with his teaching
His lifestyle should exhibit self-control and modesty
A pastor should strive to lead a modest life, avoiding excess
He need not adopt an austere life, but neither should flaunt his wealth (should he be especially blessed in that regard)
And love refers to having a caring selfless attitude toward all people, especially those under his care
Love is an action, not an emotion
So it’s about showing love to others, even when we don’t feel it
That’s an essential quality for a pastor and teacher
And faith is demonstrating a life of courage and peace consistent with a faith in Christ and a hope in His eternal promises
A pastor easily rocked by life and unstable in his ways isn’t the best person to encourage his flock to face life’s trials with faith
We need pastors who are good examples of faith lived out
Furthermore, Paul tells Timothy in v.16 that he must pay close attention to himself and to his teaching
To watch yourself means means to guard your personal life from giving cause for accusations, if even only the appearance of sin
Obviously, a pastor may take steps to protect himself against his own sinful tendencies, and so he should
But no one can truly guard himself without help
It’s like putting the fox in charge of the hen house
So guarding oneself means also seeking outside counsel and accountability to ensure we are truly guarded
We need to do whatever is necessary to ensure that we remain above reproach for the sake of the mission
Furthermore, Timothy must guard his teaching Paul says
This is an equally important and even more difficult task in some ways
Guarding one’s teaching means being careful to maintain a correct view of scripture while rejecting bad influences
Otherwise, we risk straying into false teaching
Guarding the teaching also means remaining humble and teachable in our heart
If we become proud and self-assured in what we think we understand, then we become unteachable
As a result our teaching will slowly or quickly drifting away from orthodoxy and become increasingly foolishness
Finally, guarding our teaching means the pastor maintains proper discipline in his preparation and delivery
Putting in the necessary time to properly prepare a teaching
And developing our craft to ensure we communicate properly
If a teacher fails to guard himself in this way, he will begin to “mail it in” each week
Soon his teaching becomes little more than a collection of “greatest hits” because repetition replaces godly insight
Taken together, Paul asks Timothy to be courageous, diligent, Spirit-led, and smart
He has a difficult job but one God has equipped him to accomplish
All that remains is for Timothy to work in his gift, without shrinking back knowing eternity is on the line
Paul says that doing so will ensure salvation both for himself and for those who hear him
Obviously, Timothy is already saved because of His faith in Christ
No further work was required to bring Timothy the salvation that comes by faith alone
Therefore, we know Paul isn’t talking about eternal salvation here, for if he were he would be suggesting a work is required to be saved
Instead, we must consider the word salvation in a different context
Based on the context of chapter 4, salvation means salvation from stumbling
Salvation from the troubles that might come if Timothy didn’t guard himself or his teaching
And more than just himself, Timothy is guarding the flock from stumbling as well
If a pastor fails in his duties, there is more on the line than simply his own testimony
If he fails to guard himself, his sin may embroil the congregation in controversy, lead to its division or even threaten its existence
And if Timothy doesn’t guard his teaching, the church will depart from the truth of God’s word as far as the pastor’s mistakes takes them
If our own disobedience will bring a consequence, imagine how much is on the line for pastors that fail in their duties?
That’s why Paul tells Timothy to take his responsibilities so seriously
From here, Paul begins to move through a series of direct orders to the congregation, which Paul expected Timothy to prescribe and teach
The first group of instructions regulate the different socioeconomic groups within the church
Remember, Ephesus was a relatively wealthy city
And so the church had a mix of economic backgrounds
Normally, outside the church these groups would almost never mix
So when they came together inside the church, it could cause some awkward or disruptive patterns that needed to be addressed
Yet in the church we must find a way to balance love and charity with personal responsibility and duty
So Paul begins with the most respected members of the church
First, Paul explains how Timothy is to approach those deserving the greatest respect
This is the natural starting point, because as Timothy implements Paul’s instructions, he must do so diplomatically and with respect
And the first order of business is how would Timothy work with someone who is his senior
In ancient cultures, age was inherently worthy of respect, certainly more so than today
Therefore, it was out of keeping with social norms for a younger man to rebuke or counsel an older man
And yet, as Paul just said, Timothy couldn’t let physical age differences get in the way of doing the job called him to do
Obviously, God knew what He was doing when He called Timothy to pastor, so evidently age was not the highest rule
Nevertheless, Timothy had to act with respect and caution
My Bible says tells Timothy should not “sharply rebuke” an older man, but in Greek it simply reads “do not rebuke”
A rebuke was a public censure that brought a degree of shame
And there is a time and place for rebuking members of the body
But Paul says Timothy may never rebuke and older man in the church
Obviously, if an older man was wrong or needed correction in the church, Timothy couldn’t ignore the situation
So Paul says Timothy needed to act with wisdom seeking to win that man over
Make an appeal to him like one would to his father, Paul says
Speaking to an older man like a father meant speaking with respect, patience and deference
And if that didn’t work, Timothy would have to work through the counsel and support of other older men
Just as he couldn’t censure his own father, neither could Timothy act unilateral to rebuke an older man
He needed to find the right way to get the job done, for that was the loving approach
Likewise, Timothy needed to see every relationship in the body of Christ in familial terms
If he needed to counsel a younger man, then to not lord over him or talk down to him
Rather speak to him as an older brother might speak to a young brother he loves
And older women should have the respect we show to our mother
And younger woman as to a sister
If Timothy remembered these guidelines, he would speak in love showing charity, patience and kindness
And these qualities would greatly increase the chances of gaining a positive outcome
On the other hand, a young, untrained pastor who tries to bully older men and speak dismissively to others will typically have a very short career
Paul’s remarks on how to deal with older men and women now get applied in the next set of instructions
Paul tells Timothy how to regulate the behavior of two groups apparently causing trouble in the Ephesus church: widows and elders
First Paul deals with the widows1Tim. 5:3 Honor widows who are widows indeed;
Widows in ancient times were among the most vulnerable members of society
A woman’s ability to provide for herself was severely limited in ancient times
She generally couldn’t own land or conduct business transactions on her own
So a woman without a husband was almost entirely dependent on others for care
And if her family couldn’t or wouldn’t step up to support her, she became dependent on charity
Often this meant a miserable life and an early death
Within the church, widows found an extended family willing to shoulder the burden as a demonstration of Christ’s love for His children
But with such charity came the opportunity for abuse
Some widows and widow’s families took advantage of the church’s generosity
Freed from money concerns, some widows became party girls, so to speak, bringing shame upon the church
And some families with the means to support their own widows, withdrew their support in the expectation that the church would pick up the slack
Obviously, such behavior was sin and risked tearing the church apart, as those stuck with the bill began to resent those living high on the church’s resources
So Paul tells Timothy to nip this in the bud
First he says that the family maintains the first position of responsibility for family members in need
A widow’s children or grandchildren should learn piety, Paul says
Piety means literally to show God worship and respect
In this context Paul means the family should show respect to the widow as an act of obedience to God
Furthermore, charity inside the family is “payback” to parents, Paul says in v.4
A child or grandchild has been given food, shelter and care for many years before they left the home
So when a parent or grandparent is in financial need, the child should feel an obligation to assist
This is a general rule, and we can certainly imagine exceptions (eg. a parent who gambles away money or is otherwise irresponsible)
The point is that honoring your parents means financially as well, which is acceptable in the sight of God
Even though the church can be a safety net for the body of Christ in times of need...
It does not replace the family’s responsibility to care for its own as far as it is able
And in general, we need to be careful about extending charity merely because we see need
There will always be more need than the church can address
And any time we extend charity, we’re taking money out of the pocket of our church family, whether directly or indirectly
Moreover, the church’s charity is supposed to be directly to the needs of the body, primarily and above other needs
But only after the family’s left with no other option
But the charity the church gives its members comes with strings attached
Paul says a widow may receive support if she passes four tests
First, she must be a widow indeed
That is she must be alone, truly without support
Simply put, the church must be her last option
The reason the church is to be the last option is simply because charity places a burden on other members
So out of respect and love for all concerned, we don’t extend charity within the body without justified need
Secondly, the woman must have fixed her hope on God
While this phrase could be understood in several ways, I believe it’s best to understand this as a test of identity
In other words, Paul is referring to a believing widow as opposed to an unbeliever
So the second test is that the widow be truly Christian
Church charity should be focused on the believer
The church is not an ATM
Nor is it a humanitarian relief organization
It exists to serve the spiritual needs of the world
And it provides limited support for the physical needs of those who have placed their hope in Christ
Finally, she must serve the body in keeping with her confession of faith, which Paul describes as giving prayers night and day
The basic concern is that the widow is actively engaged in the life of the body in service to Christ
She doesn’t simply show up to cash her checks and then disappears until the next Sunday
Rather we want someone who is supported by the church in this way to give back in spiritual ways to the limits of their ability
And for most widows, the only reasonable thing they could do would be to pray for the body of Christ
An older widow living on church support has little to offer – by definition
She would have no money, probably little strength or skills
But she has time, and prayer requires nothing but a heart for God and His people
It’s the reverse principle of the one Paul gives for supporting teachers
Paul says teachers give to us spiritual things, so we should be willing to give them earthly things as an offering of thanks
Similarly, the church is giving the needy widow earthly things (ie. money, food, etc.)
So she should be willing to repay the congregation in spiritual things (prayer)
So if the church gives charity to widows or anyone, we should demand they meet these tests
They must be believers
They must seek to take the church’s support only after exhausting all other avenues of support
And they must return the church’s material support with spiritual support
If they meet these tests, then we can offer support
Finally, Paul adds a fourth condition that continues to apply even after the support begins
He says in v.6 that if a widow happens to abuse her income, then she isn’t to be viewed with the honor of a widow
Wanton pleasure means to live in luxury
So should widows live in an excessive way, especially if she were seeking church support, then she is to be viewed entirely differently
The wording at the end of v.6 is hard to translate
The most literal translation would be: “and she who is given to living in luxury — has died”
It’s a play on words
Paul means that she is to be left for dead, though obviously she isn’t in danger of dying physically
He means that she is living a spiritually dead lifestyle and therefore the church has no obligation to care for her
We’ll end today with Paul’s words to Timothy
Once again, Timothy was counseled not to shy away from this teaching
If Timothy shared this truth, then the whole body of Christ may be seen to be above reproach
The needy would be helped, the self-sufficient would not become a burden and the reckless are left to their own
In all these things, the name of Christ is glorified among the nations