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I was talking to a Muslim friend and he talked about how a lot of persons in the Old Testament had more than one wife at a time and he used that to defend the idea that one man can have multiple wives. I understand that marriage is supposed to be between one man and woman, but what is a good response to this friend?
The original design given by God for a marriage, predates any man in the Bible that had multiple wives (Jacob, David, Solomon, etc.). Just because God allowed these men to have multiple wives, does not mean that He approved it. One could assume that God allowed these men to have multiple wives in order to show grace upon the women of this time. Moreover, Genesis 1 and 2 are clear as to what God had ordained as a marriage institution then and today:
In both of these Genesis accounts we see the singular use of man and woman, never plural. This is a one man and one woman design from the very beginning of creation.
Again, God is calling the Kings of this time to abandon the idea that multiple wives is God's desire among His people.
For example, check out these few scriptures from the New Testament:
In conclusion, the marriage union designed by God is a mere picture of God's relationship with His people. He sacrificed Himself, in the Person of Jesus Christ, to save us from wrath. Marriage is a picture of something far greater than worldly pleasure or submission, it embodies how Christ (Bridegroom) sacrificially laid His life down for His Church (Bride).
Scripture quotations taken from the (NASB®) New American Standard Bible®, Copyright © 1995, 2020 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission. All rights reserved. www.lockman.org