Written by
Sofi Smith
Written by
Sofi SmithScripture: Romans 8:1-11
Big Idea:
I’m safe in Jesus forever, and His Spirit helps me live for God now!
Call to Action:
This week, challenge yourself to write down what you have learned concerning Spirit & Flesh.
Family Action:
When we remind kids about the battle between the flesh and the Spirit, we’re helping them see that they can make a choice. Show them how you face this battle too, and teach them how to choose Jesus instead of sin.
Bible Drills (Memorization of OT & NT Book order)
Guide the children to Romans 8:1-11 in the Bible. (Help them as needed, NT vs OT)
Say: We are going to continue through Paul's letter to the church of Rome.
We will learn that the gospel is God’s power to save everyone who believes, and we should never be ashamed of Jesus.
Read aloud. (Ask kids to start their pointer fingers on V1 and follow along)
Review:
vv. 4:1-12 Old Testament Proof for being saved by faith (Abraham’s Faith)
vv. 4:13-25 God’s promises come by faith, not by works. More Proof from Abraham’s life.
vv. 5:1-11 Because of Jesus, I’m made right with God. Praise God!
vv. 5:12-21 Sin came through Adam, Life came through Jesus.
vv. 6:1-14 The old self is dead, buried, and raised to new life through Christ!
vv. 6:15-23 Once a slave to sin, now a slave to righteousness!
vv. 7:1-13 God’s Law is good—our sinful nature is the problem.
vv. 7:13-25 The war of the Flesh!
vv. 8:1-11 Life in the Spirit, Forever with God!
Who helps you when you feel stuck, scared, or unsure what to do?” (Let kids discuss) → Opens discussion about the Holy Spirit being our helper and proof we belong to Jesus.
Notes:
Romans 6 taught us that when we believed in Jesus, He made our spirit brand-new.
Romans 7 showed us why we still struggle with sin—because our body hasn’t been fixed yet and still wants to do wrong.
That can make us wonder things like:
If I still sin, am I really saved?
How do we know who is truly a believer?
Do hard things happen because God is upset with me?
All these questions really come down to one worry: “Am I safe with God forever?”
Romans 8 answers that worry.
It shows us that even though we still battle sin, we are completely secure in Jesus and nothing can ever separate us from Him.
Notes:
Because Paul starts this with {So} as in you understand Romans 6 & 7, now I’ll continue. Other versions of the Bible use the word therefore.
V1 No Condemnation in Christ- RIGHT NOW!
When you trust in Jesus, God gives you a new spirit — perfect, clean, and forever His.
God never condemns His children. Not now… not ever.
Even though our body still sins, our true self (our spirit) is already forgiven and made new.
God sees Jesus’ righteousness when He looks at us — not our failures.
Kid Point: Jesus took my punishment, so I never have to fear God’s anger or wrath.
Key Theological Term:
condemnation- means being declared guilty and deserving of punishment. Example: It’s like a judge saying, “You did wrong, and you must be punished.”
V2-4 Freedom From the Law of Sin and Death
The Holy Spirit sets us free (v.2).
Our old spirit was under a rule (“law”) that said sin = death.
The Holy Spirit is now the “law of life” inside us.
The Law couldn’t save us (v.3).
Our sinful flesh couldn’t obey the law; the Law only showed us our failure.
Jesus fulfilled everything the Law required (v.4)
Everything God’s Law demanded — perfect obedience — has already been completed in Christ.
When we trust Jesus, His perfect record becomes our record.
We now walk by the Spirit, not the flesh (v.4).
Our old sinful body still tries to pull us toward sin… but it doesn’t rule us anymore.
Kid Point: Jesus completed everything the Law required, including the punishment of death.
V5-8 Before I was saved, I never thought to please God.
Before Jesus, we only followed our flesh.
Before salvation, there was no tug-of-war inside us—only the sinful desires of our body. (Even the good we did).
The unbelieving mind naturally is against God (v.6–7).
Paul says a mind “set on the flesh” leads to death—because sin always ends in death.
The fleshly mind is hostile toward God—it doesn’t want what He wants and can’t obey Him, even if it tries.
God’s Law shows us what’s right, but the flesh uses that knowledge to sin even more.
The unbeliever cannot please God (v.8).
Without the Spirit, a person has no desire to honor God.
They don’t feel convicted about sin, and they don’t think about eternity.
They do not worry about salvation — because the idea never even enters their mind.
Notes:
After salvation, everything inside us changes!
When we trust in Jesus, God gives us a new spirit that perfectly agrees with Him.
Our thinking changes from:
“How do I avoid trouble?” → to → “How do I please God?”
“What do I want?” → to → “What does God want?”
Now we feel burdened by sin, not just its consequences.
We think about eternal life, not just earthly things.
Our changed thinking is proof that we belong to Jesus!
The fact that you care about sin…
The fact that you want to obey…
The fact that you think about heaven…
All of that proves the Holy Spirit is inside you.
Kid Point: Before Jesus, my mind followed sin. Now, because of the Holy Spirit, I can think in a way that pleases God.
V9-11 The Holy Spirit is God’s proof that you truly belong to Jesus and will live forever with Him.
When you believed in Jesus, the Holy Spirit came to live inside you instantly (v.1).
Paul says clearly:
If someone has the Spirit, they belong to Jesus.
If someone does NOT have the Spirit, they are not His.
Your body still sins and will one day die. But the Spirit in you is ALIVE!
Your spirit is part of Christ, perfect and righteous forever.
The SAME Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead will raise your body one day, making it new and perfect and unable to sin ever again.
This means nothing you do in your body can undo what Christ has done in your heart.
Kid Point: I am His forever & will one day have a perfect body like Jesus!
According to Romans 8:1, what is there now for those who are in Christ Jesus? (No condemnation. God will not judge or punish our spirit for sin. However, there IS still consequences for sin)
In Romans 8:2, what has set us free from the law of sin and death? (The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus — meaning our new Spirit-born life. Being Born-again)
According to Romans 8:9, who does not belong to Christ? (Anyone who does not have the Spirit of Christ living in them. Unbelievers)
Why is there no condemnation for believers? (Because our spirit is now perfect and righteous in Christ, even though our body still sins. v.1)
What does Paul mean when he says the Spirit “set us free”? (We are no longer under the law that demanded death for our sin — Jesus already paid that penalty v.2)
What does Romans 8:11 mean when it says the Spirit will “give life to your mortal bodies”? (The same Holy Spirit who raised Jesus will one day raise our bodies and make them new and sinless forever v.8)
If God says you are “not condemned,” how should you think when you feel guilty or afraid? (Remember that God does not condemn me — my sin does not change God’s love or my salvation. There are still consequences for sin v.1)
How can knowing the Spirit lives in you help you make better choices? (I can listen to His voice and choose things that please God instead of things my sinful body wants v.9-10)
How does the promise of resurrection encourage you when life feels hard? (God will finish the good work He started — one day I will have a perfect body and live with Him forever v.11/ Philippians 1:6)
Activity #1: Old Life / New Life Flip Book
Supplies Needed:
Cardstock or construction paper (1 per child)
Scissors
Markers, crayons, or colored pencils
Stickers (optional)
Instructions
Give each child 1 sheet
Fold in half horizontally like a booklet.
Cut the top folded portion in half. You will have 2 flaps.
Label the flaps : OLD LIFE (Flesh) | NEW LIFE (Spirit)
Under each flap, draw a picture to represent the old and new life.
Examples of the old life controlled by sin (simple, non-guilting examples):
A sad face
Someone doing something selfish
A heart with scribbles
A broken chain
Darkness / storm clouds
Examples of life in the Spirit:
A happy face / peaceful heart
A bright light
A heart with cross in it
Hands praying
A chain broken completely
On the back, kids write: “Because of Jesus, I have a NEW LIFE! Romans 8:1-11”
Teaching Conversation While They Work:
Ask: “What’s the difference between the old life and the new life?”
“Which part of you does God say is perfect and alive now?”
“How does the Holy Spirit help you every day?”
Remind them gently: The old life still shows up sometimes, but the real “you” is the new life in Jesus.
Activity #2 : Memory Verse
Come up with moves
Romans 8:1 Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.
Jesus’ perfect life paid for the sins of all who believe. Jesus died on the cross as the punishment for sin. But Jesus did not stay dead, three days later He rose to life (resurrection) defeating the power of death. Believe, and you will be saved!
We are all sinful. We all deserve the consequence of sin- death.
Jesus is what saves us from the sin we all have in our bodies. And one day, he’ll even give us a new body.
God will not punish me for sin when I stand before Him. (Romans 8:1)
God’s Spirit gives us a brand-new kind of life. (Romans 8:2)
Jesus perfectly obeyed God for us. (Romans 8:3-4)
God sees us as righteous because of Jesus living in us. (Romans 8:10)
The Holy Spirit guarantees our future resurrection. (Romans 8:11)
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.