Taught by
Stephen Armstrong
Taught by
Stephen ArmstrongPick up again with Jesus’ encounter with the Samaritan woman at the well
Jesus is traveling north back to the Galilee
He has the beginnings of his crew of disciples in tow
They must travel through Samaria, a region hostile to Jews
As we learned last time, the Samaritans were a group who went to great lengths to counterfeit the Jewish faith
They had descended from the northern tribes of Israel
But they had polluted their bloodlines by intermarrying with Gentiles
And thereby forfeited their Jewishness
As a result, they were spurned centuries earlier by the Jewish remnant returning to the land after the Babylonian captivity
As a result, they became enemies of Israel
And they contended for the title of true Jew
They counterfeited Judaism with an elaborate system religious law, temple service and priesthood
But none of it was true
It merely mimicked the true faith
As a result, it was largely based on worship revolving around holy places and relics and ritual
This is not a pattern unique to Samaritans
As we said last time, it’s the definitive pattern of religion absent the Spirit
Manmade religion is a manmade attempt to reach up to Heaven
But true religion is delivered from Heaven as a revelation of God
In this story, a Samaritan woman meets Jesus at a well
This woman is trapped in a system of false religious worship
She doesn’t know it’s false
But something inside her knows there must be more to worshipping God than what she’s been taught
More importantly, her life doesn’t reflect God’s presence, as we’ll soon see
So on this day, a woman trapped in false religion meets the Truth
That is the Way, the Life and the Truth
Sychar is a city located just outside the city of Shechem
On this land, Jacob gave his son Joseph a well in Gen 48
This particular spot was within sight of Mt Gerizim, the Samaritan temple
And Jesus stops to rest and get water
He sends the disciples into the city to find food, while he waits here alone
As we said last time, the Samaritans called this well “Jacob’s well,” but it was folklore and unlikely to be the true well
They made this location another relic
And they used their claim to possess Jacob’s well as another proof that they were the true Jews
In this way, they were guilty of worshipping the creation rather than the Creator
In v7 Jesus asks a Samaritan woman who comes to draw water to give Him a drink
And she is clearly surprised by His request
She says how is it that you, a Jew, asking a Samaritan woman for a drink?
She asks “how” and not “why” because Jews were forbidden to become indebted to a Samaritan
Asking a Samaritan for any service or favor without offering payment in some way was indebtedness to Jew
Furthermore, men rarely showed regard for strange women in a public place
So she asks how can Jesus get around this rule and speak to her, being both a Samaritan and a woman
The answer of course is that these limits are rules set by man
God is not a respecter of persons, according to Acts 10:34
These restrictions were the result of human prejudice, instituted by the rulers of Israel as a means of shunning Samaritans
But Jesus came to seek and save the lost
So Jesus engages this woman with a request for water
We can all learn something from Jesus’ technique
First, He engages the lost
He doesn’t wait for her to speak first
He doesn’t avoid conversation altogether
We are here on earth to engage
We are Jesus’ ambassadors
Secondly, Jesus doesn’t start with a conversation about religious matters
He begins with a simple request for water
We need to be real and natural
Typically, we don’t start our conversations with the lost by saying “So, do you have Jesus in your heart?”
Not because it’s wrong
But because it’s abrupt and unnatural
Don’t convert someone so that you can establish a relationship
Develop a relationship, so you can work them toward conversion
Third, be purposeful in your engagement
Of course, Jesus knew how His request would take the woman by surprise
He will use her surprise to begin a conversation that leads somewhere purposeful
He knows that as she works with him in this conversation, He can direct it into more meaningful things
If she takes the bait, so to speak, then there is an opportunity
These are the methods we should use as we seek the lost in keeping with our mission
As this scene plays out, we will see that there are two conversations taking place
Like with the Pharisee, this woman is having one conversation, while Jesus is having another conversation
There’s a story of an older couple who suffered under similar circumstances
Now that the woman has taken the bait, Jesus moves into the conversation proper
After the woman’s disrespectful comment, Jesus responds by raising an entirely different topic, but one that uses the topic of water as a metaphor
He says if this woman knew the gift of God and if she knew who was speaking to her, then she would have asked for living water
Living water is a Jewish euphemism for flowing water, like a spring of river of water
Flowing water is “living” in the sense that it’s clean and safe to drink
Therefore, living water is the Bible’s metaphor for the life-giving power of the Spirit of God
Just as fresh water is essential to sustaining our physical life, so is Spirit essential to eternal life
So the Bible uses the idea of a never-ending supply of fresh water as a picture of the never ending spiritual life that comes from the Spirit of God dwelling in us
Just as with Nicodemus and birth, Jesus is speaking about salvation using earthly metaphors
And like Nicodemus, Jesus is addressing a woman who’s captive of a false system of worship, a false religion
He’s calling her to know the true God, to seek the truth and put aside the myths and false creeds
Jesus says she’s missing an important opportunity because she lacks two things
Things that are closely related
First, she doesn’t know the gift of God
What is this gift of God?
We know Jesus is on the topic of eternal life
Therefore, we must assume He’s talking about the gift that leads to eternal life
As Paul explains in Ephesians 2
If she had known the grace of God manifested through the gift of faith, she could have recognized Jesus
Ironically, she had just mocked Jesus because He had asked her for a gift of water from the well
But Jesus says she should have been the one asking Him for a gift, the gift of eternal life through faith
Secondly, Jesus says if she had known who was speaking with her
If she knew Jesus, her Christ, the Messiah, the Son of God
Jesus is telling her she doesn’t know His true identity
And if she knew, she would speaking about entirely different things
If you know you’re talking to the One Who can grant you salvation, then no matter how the conversation starts, you would direct it toward a request for eternal life
And knowing Jesus’ identity as Messiah is only possible with the gift of faith
Men cannot find the Truth in their own power
It’s as if you were placed in an infinity large room filled with boxes but with no light whatsoever
And in one box is a treasure you wish to find
Unless and until the light is turned on, you have no hope to find the right box
Even if you happened across the treasure box in the dark, you would just stumble over it
We need the Light from God to find the true treasure of eternal life
And because that light is delivered in the form of earthen vessels – beginning with Jesus in the form of Man – it defeats the pride of men
It leads to moments like this, when this woman is stumbling over Jesus
She is arguing over rules and cultural prejudices rather opening the treasure standing before her
Which is why He begins by saying if she knew the gift of God, things would be different
But the woman isn’t on Jesus’ wavelength as yet...she’s still having an earthly conversation that misses Jesus’ point
She hears Jesus’ words about living water, and she assumes He’s just talking about moving water
To her unopened ears, it sounded like Jesus was offering to draw water for her from a well that was superior to the one she was drawing from
And then she notices that Jesus has brought nothing to draw water from this well
And this well in Samaria is one of the deepest in Palestine
Over 75 feet
So naturally she says she is perplexed about where Jesus expects to obtain better water
And she isn’t done with her insults yet...she mocks Him again by asking if Jesus is greater than “our” father, Jacob
Jacob was one of the most important figures in Samaritan theology
He was even greater than Abraham or Moses for a Samaritan
He was their link to true Judaism
In the Bible, Abraham is associated with the land of Judea, which reminded the Samaritans of their enemies in Jerusalem
And Moses was the link to the Jewish law, which the Samaritans rejected in place of their own version
So Jacob was king in Samaria
And so the woman reminds Jesus that Jacob was the father of the Samaritans as much as the Jews
The Samaritan woman, like all Samaritans, assumed that if God gave Jacob and later Joseph this well, then there was no better source
Take note that there is always a degree of pride that accompanies manmade religion
Like all Samaritans, this woman lived with a religious chip on her shoulder
She was always primed to defend herself against the accusations of a Jew
Every relic, every acre of sacred land, every symbol was important and worthy of defense
This is the heart of every religious man who lacks the gift of God
They defend their manmade religious system, even when truth is against them
Because the alternative is to concede that their religion is based on lies
Their pride and ego are at stake
I can remember my years growing up in a Catholic family
I thought I had been given the truth, though I didn’t know the first thing about God or the true Gospel
So if someone suggested I wasn’t truly Christian or that I didn’t have the right viewpoint, I was always quick to defend the Catholic faith
I wasn’t defending the word of God or the Lord Himself
I was defending my tradition and family identity and my pride
Even a cursory study of church history would have shown me that the tradition I sought to defend was demonstrably false
But I wasn’t really interested in the question of how to truly find God
I was only interested in defending my pride
Just as this woman is blindly defending her culture and history
God’s word reveals the truth, of course, and because that truth comes by way of the gift of God, it excludes prideful boasting by those who know the truth
We certainly work diligently to defend the truth every bit as much as those trapped in false religious systems defend what they believe
But our defense doesn’t (or shouldn’t) be focused on saving face or protecting our pride
As Paul says, what do we have that wasn’t given to us by God?
We didn’t figure this out on our own, and neither should we expect to argue someone else into accepting the truth
We are messenger, and the power of our message is self-evident to those being saved
The message of salvation isn’t designed to sound sensible to human intellect or pride
It’s designed to sound foolish to shame the pride of men who think they can find God through their own devices
God crafted His message of salvation as a foolish-sounding story about a criminal crucified long ago so that when someone finds it appealing, it’s a sign of the power of God at work
The person who receives the Gospel is showing evidence they have received the wisdom of God by means of the Spirit
The question in our current scenario is whether this woman is going to receive that wisdom
To this point, she’s simply defending the Samaritan perspective as a matter of pride
And she’s arrogantly insulting Jesus in the process
She asks Jesus if He was greater than Jacob?
It’s an ironic insult, because it’s true
Jesus is so much greater than Jacob
He is the God of Jacob
Jesus’ response ignores her insult and continues to teach on the meaning of living water
Jesus points to the water in her well and says everyone who comes here must return again
Physical water only provides temporary satisfaction
No matter how often she drinks of this water, sooner or later she will be thirsty again
And of course, Jesus’ point goes far beyond the physical dimension
He’s speaking of how manmade religion cannot satisfy the soul’s longing to be reconciled with God
No matter how often this woman sacrificed at her temple on Gerizim, she still walked away with the guilt of her sin
No matter how often she prayed to idols or a nonexistent god, she remained unsatisfied
She could return over and over again, but still her guilt remained
No matter how much she tithed, she couldn’t buy God’s favor
No human ritual or work can achieve what only comes by a gift of God
Eventually her doubts and fears of death return
Nothing of this world will ever satisfy
Because rituals can’t cancel out our spiritual debt nor fill the spiritual emptiness of fallen man
But Jesus gives her a better way
He says, first, the one who seeks must come to Jesus
They don’t come to physical water in a well or to some relic or through a ritual
They come to the person of Jesus, because our faith must be in Him
Secondly, what Jesus offers is everlasting
Jesus doesn’t bring a partial or temporary solution
We will never need to seek again
His solution satisfies us because it addresses the very cause for our seeking: it removes the penalty for sin
He reconciles us to God once and forever, so we will never want for something else
Thirdly, once the Spirit takes up residence inside us, He becomes a wellspring bringing forth eternal life
The indwelling of Christ’s Spirit leads to a changing within
We begin to move in a direction of holiness and contentment
Righteousness begins to spring up in us
And that sanctification process continues until it brings us into eternal life
But these ships are still passing each other, as we see by her response
Once more, the woman refuses to enter into a spiritual conversation
She acts as if Jesus is still talking about literal water
And she sarcastically asks Jesus to give her this “water” that never leaves her thirsty so she can avoid returning to do the work of drawing water
She doesn’t realize that her comment is a perfect response to the spiritual meaning of Jesus’ words,
She says if she had Jesus’ water, she wouldn’t have to continue working to obtain her own water
That is essentially the Gospel message
Jesus’ offer of eternal life eliminates the need for us to labor at obtaining our own solution through dead works
This woman is asking for Jesus to solve an earthly problem, not realizing Jesus is the solution to an eternal problem
At this point, we give this woman the benefit of the doubt and assume she is just missing Jesus’ point
But given what John has taught earlier, we must conclude that this is an example of darkness avoiding the Light
This woman is in the darkness, and she won’t enter into Jesus’ spiritual conversation because it would require stepping into the Light
And coming into that Light will expose her evil deeds
This isn’t a conscious process
Rather, it’s instinctive, a result of a sinful nature
So what must happen before a person leaves the Light and steps into darkness?
The Bible tells us that God must act first
We must be brought to repentance with an expectation of forgiveness
She is still looking for an earthly solution
Why? Why hasn’t she understood Jesus words properly? What’s missing?
In a word, repentance
The woman hasn’t yet come to repent of her present circumstances
Repentance is a turning away, but not from some specific mistake
It means a turning away from man-made religion and to obedience to the Gospel
Repentance means seeing ourselves the way God sees us and being just as troubled by what He sees
The Bible says repentance is the necessary preparatory step to faith taking hold in the heart
Repentance must precede true faith because we can’t pile God’s truth on top an existing heap of false religious beliefs and dead works
We must turn away from the darkness before we can receive the Light
But even the repentance that leads to salvation is itself a product of God’s work in our hearts
Godly repentance produces godly sorrow
And this type of sorrow comes as a consequence of the kindness and will of God
And so in kindness, Jesus takes the first step to provoke repentance
Jesus tells the woman to go and get her husband
Jesus is asking to address to the authority in her home
This was culturally expected
He just offered to give her a gift, and she accepted
But in this day, a man could not give a gift to a strange woman
So Jesus calls for the husband, so he can transact the business
But of course, in this case Jesus has an entirely different purpose in raising the question of her husband
Supernaturally, Jesus knew this woman’s situation
Remember, John told us in chapter 2 that Jesus knew all men and didn’t need anyone to testify to the nature of their hearts
He knew this woman was living in sin
She had married five times
And each time, her husband had put her away, probably for some indiscretion or indecency
And now she is in a sexual relationship with a man who has not married her
She was just one step above prostitute
So by raising the question of a husband, Jesus opened the door on her evil deeds
The woman’s answer is circumspect
She says she has no husband but never mentions her past relationships or her current relationship
This is no confession
At best, we can say it was truthful
And Jesus Himself acknowledges the truth of it
But there is no sense of repentance at this point
She is still hiding her evil deeds from the Light
But the Jesus seizes on her answer to expose her deeds and convict her
He explains her marital history
And He calls her out for living in sin in her current relationship
In the way He answers her, Jesus highlights how she is hiding the truth
Notice He says “you have correctly said you have no husband...”
In other words, He’s saying you have spoken more truth about yourself than you are willing to acknowledge
Again, at the end Jesus says “this you have said truly,” meaning the only honest thing you’ve said is that you are without a husband
The power of God’s Light is in His ability to reveal the things hidden in the darkness of our hearts
This woman must have been pariah in her town and culture
She was a disgrace
And she carried that guilt everywhere
When she encountered people who knew of her circumstances, she would have been shunned or condemned or
The only ones who treated her with respect were strangers who knew nothing of her situation
But here’s a stranger who knows her sin, yet He hasn’t condemned her
Instead, Jesus was willing to treat her with respect
He even offered to give her a special gift
She must have been surprised, both by Jesus’ insight and His willingness to accept her
She responds saying, “I sense you’re a prophet” referring to Jesus’ insight
But she’s saying more here than meets our Western eyes
Samaritans rejected all Jewish prophets after Moses
The only prophet they were prepared to acknowledge was the prophet Moses himself said would come one day
The prophet described in Deut 18
Like the Jews, the Samaritans understood this coming prophet would be the Messiah
The Messiah was the only prophet the Samaritans were willing to acknowledge because He was the only prophet mentioned by Moses
And so when this woman says she perceives that Jesus is a prophet, she is raising the prospect that Jesus is the Messiah
Now if you’re the woman, there are a number of places you could take the conversation from this point
You could ask Jesus how He knew these things about her
You could become defensive and seek to explain your circumstances
You could get embarrassed or angry and run away
But she does none of those things
Instead, she takes the conversation in a religious direction, asking Jesus to settle an ages-old religious dispute
The woman asks Jesus to rule on whether the Samaritans or Jews had the correct view on where to worship
Samaritans had made Gerizim the center of worship, owing back to Abraham and Jacob’s wandering in this land
They said this mountain was the place of Isaac’s sacrifice
And this was the place Abraham met Melchizedek
Since this mountain was near Shechem and many significant events in the patriarch’s lives were connected to Shechem, it was logical to conclude that this was an important place
Nevertheless, Jewish scriptures had revealed that the place God chose to place HIs temple was in Jerusalem, not at Shechem
Because the Samaritans rejected the word of God delivered by His prophets, they were in the wrong
But the very question of where someone should worship was growing obsolete
Both Samaritans and Jews were worshipping places and faces rather than the Living God Who sanctified those things
Jesus confirms the superiority of the Jewish perspective but then quickly moves passed the question of where one worships to how one worships
Jesus says a time is coming when true worshippers won’t go to any particular mountain to find God
In that day, the true mountain was in Jerusalem, Jesus says
The Samaritans were worshipping a counterfeit, Jesus says
True salvation is found only through the Jewish people
The Jewish people are the ones God selected to deliver the truth to the world
They received the covenants of God
They produced the prophets who revealed the word of God
They produced the Messiah, through Whom we must approach the Father
So if you desire true salvation, then you must accept the preeminence of the Jewish people in God’s plan
But nevertheless, the way into eternal life isn’t found through the customs, law or sacred places of Judaism
Jesus says an “hour” is coming and is already here when true worship is set free from a prescribed form or location
The word hour refers to a time or age, and that time is called the last days or the church age
The time following the Messiah’s appearing until His return
During this time, Jesus says the Father will seek true worshippers who approach Him through spirit and truth
Worshippers must approach the Father on His terms, and in past days those terms were dictated by the Law given to Israel
By His word, the Lord determined that worship would be limited to certain people and certain places
He required a temple and sacrifices
This was the truth that the Samaritans lacked
But these constraints were a temporary measure in preparation for the arrival of the Messiah
The writer of Hebrews says that the existence of the tabernacle signified that the way for personal access to the Father had not yet been revealed
Once the Messiah was revealed, the hour came for men to approach the throne personally
But that approach is made possible by the revelation of the Messiah and our faith in that Messiah
The revelation of God is the Truth that makes possible a way to the Father
And our faith in that Messiah is a gift of the Spirit, which makes our worship acceptable to the Father
We must worship in the truth of Christ and by His Spirit or else our worship is null and void
Jesus emphasizes that worshiping in Spirit is necessary because God Himself is Spirit
In other words, the Father is not localized to a single place
He exists in Spirit form, which means ironically that though He is everywhere, He cannot be found in a certain place
We approach Him only through His Spirit residing in us
The Samaritans lacked the truth of God’s word, so they were far from the Spirit of God and could not worship Him truly
But an hour was coming for the world to know God in Truth and Spirit, and that hour had already come to this woman
Jesus is announcing the arrival of salvation for this Samaritan woman
He has brought her evil deeds into the Light
Yet He didn’t condemn her for them
The Lord’s kindness softened her heart, and she entered into a conversation about finding God
And Jesus has told her that worship must be a matter of Spirit and Truth
Now all that remains is for this woman to embrace that truth
The woman confesses her faith in God’s promise of a Messiah from Deut 18:18
And when that One arrives, she says, He will explain all things, settle all arguments and set straight every dispute
And by this confession, she is showing faith as a child of God
But once the identity of the Messiah is revealed to world, true faith will embrace the Person of Messiah
So then came the test for this woman
Jesus announces He is the One that Moses said would come
Critics of Jesus and the Bible will suggest that Jesus never declared He was the Messiah or God in the flesh
This verse (among other in John’s Gospel) counter that lie easily
Like the earlier encounter with Nicodemus, this scene teaches us something about salvation
Ritual and tradition are not a substitute for true worship of God
The time of relics and special buildings and rituals is passed
That age has gone and in it’s place has come a new age
An hour when worship shows no regard for form or place
With Nicodemus, we learned that salvation comes by a new spiritual birth, and with this Samaritan woman we learn our worship must be guided by that new spirit
There are some intriguing contrasts between these two characters
In John 3, we found a man of high regard and reputation
A Jew who supposed possessed the truth of Heaven
He had nothing to hide, yet he came to Jesus in the night and in ignorance
In John 4, we have a woman of low regard and ill repute
She is a Samaritan trapped by religious lies
She had everything to hide, but she met Jesus in the open under a midday sun
The Lord is not a respecter of persons, saving both Jew and Gentile, but to the Jew first, for salvation is of the Jews
But unlike Jesus, the apostles are still very much respecter of persons
And a Samaritan woman deserves no respect as we see in v.27
As the disciples approached the well on foot, they must have observed Jesus speaking to this Samaritan woman from a distance
And they are completely perplexed
They are completely amazed, because Jesus is breaking one of the more important restrictions of Jewish society
He is speaking to a Samaritan – and a woman no less
But despite their curiosity, they say nothing to this woman
Their silence could have been driven out of respect for Jesus’ authority
But if that were all there was to this, why would John think to mention it?
I think he raises this point to illustrate the disciples’ ongoing prejudice
Jesus has spoken kindly to an enemy and she has received His word
But the disciples of the Lord are still living in their flesh, unable to move past human prejudice
This verse sets up a contrast that takes us into the second half of the chapter, a contrast between the disciples and the Samaritan woman
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