Written by
Sofi Smith
Written by
Sofi SmithScripture: Romans 2:17-29
Big Idea:
God doesn’t just see what’s on the outside- He looks at our hearts.
Call to Action:
Ask yourself? Do I see the Bible as a bunch of rules or laws?
Family Action:
What is one way this week I can show my children that I belong to God-
not just by what I say, but by how I live?
Bible Drills (Memorization of OT & NT Book order)
Guide the children to Romans 2:17-29 in the Bible. (Help them as needed, NT vs OT)
Say: We are going to continue through Paul's letter to the people of Rome.
We will learn that the gospel is God’s power to save everyone who believes, and we should never be ashamed of Jesus.
Read aloud. (Ask kids to start their pointer fingers on v17 and follow along)
Review:
vv.1-15 Paul’s Introduction of the letter
vv. 16-17 How we are made right with God (main point of letter)
vv. 18-32 How you’re NOT made right; Lie #1 Worship of the Creation (Idolatry/ Paganism).
vv. 2:1-16 Lie #2 Being “good” doesn’t make us right with God (vv.1-11) & beginning of Lie #3 Moralism/ Laws (vv.12-16)
vv. 2:17-29 Continuing Lie #3 Following Laws/Rules doesn’t make us right with God. (Laws/ Nomianism)
“Have you ever thought, ‘I know all the rules, so I’m doing great,’ but then realized your heart wasn’t right? Paul says having the rules isn’t enough- God cares about our hearts.”
We cannot reach heaven by following “Laws or Rules,” so Paul addresses this issue because many people believe that’s how you get to Heaven. Can we keep all the laws/rules? (Think about the laws in your country or at your school.)
V17-20 Knowing the Law Isn’t Enough
The Jews had God’s Law and thought it made them special. v17
They believed this made them teachers and guides for others. vv18-19
By knowing the Law or rules doesn’t mean you’re living by them. v20
Kid Point: God wants us to follow Him from the heart, not just know the rules.
V21-24 Hypocrisy Dishonors God
Paul points out that some Jews taught others but didn’t obey themselves. vv21-23
Saying one thing and doing another is hypocrisy.
Hypocrisy makes people think poorly of God. v24
Example of hypocrisy: If a teacher says, “Always tell the truth,” but then they tell a lie, that’s hypocrisy. Or if a kid says, “Sharing is important,” but never shares their toys, that’s hypocrisy too.
Kid Point: I need to live what I say I believe.
Key Theological Term:
blasphemed- to speak against God or slander towards God
V25-27 Outward Signs Don’t Save Us
The Jews had circumcision as a special sign of belonging to God. v25a
But Paul says the sign means nothing if you disobey God’s Law. v25b
Even someone without the sign but who obeys God is honoring Him more. vv26-27
Kid Point: What’s on the outside doesn’t save me- God looks at my heart.
V28-29 True Faith Is in the Heart
Being a real follower of God isn’t about outward appearances. (Jews, Catholics & Mormons, etc.) v28
God’s Spirit must change our hearts, not just our outside. v29a
Real praise comes from God, not people. v29b
Kid Point: Only God can change my heart to follow Him.
What did Paul say the Jewish people were proud of having? (The Law of God v.17–18)
What did Paul ask them about teaching others but not keeping the law themselves? (Do you dishonor God by breaking the law v.21–22)
What did Paul say about what really makes someone a Jew? (A true “Jew” is one who has a heart change, by the work of the Spirit v.28–29)
Why is it a problem to boast about God’s law but not actually obey it? (You dishonor God)
What does Paul mean when he says “circumcision of the heart”? (A new heart. The old heart is cut off and a new heart that loves God is given. This takes time and the word of God to change us.)
Why does God care more about our hearts than the rules we try to follow on the outside? (We can't “make” ourselves more like Jesus by doing rules or law (that's work). A heart shift is triggered by a love for God, which then produces a Jesus-like life.)
Am I tempted to act “good” on the outside but hide sin on the inside?
How can I let God change my heart instead of just trying harder to keep rules?
What is one way this week I can show that I belong to God- not just by what I say, but by how I live?
1: Craft
Heart Change
Supplies Needed:
Construction paper
Scissors
Markers
Directions:
Give each child a heart-shaped paper.
On one side write “Outside,” on the other “Inside.”
Have them list or draw ways God changes the inside (love, honesty, kindness).
On the outside, have them list or draw practical ways they can show God’s love (write a thank you card for a teacher, help cook dinner, mow a neighbor’s lawn)
2: Memory Verse
Come up with moves:
Romans 1:16 For I am not ashamed of this Good News about Christ. It is the power of God at work, saving everyone who believes—the Jew first and also the Gentile.
3: Discussion
For Older Youth Students, see separate printable handout.
Jesus’ perfect life paid for the sins of all who believe. Jesus died on the cross as the punishment for sin. But Jesus did not stay dead, three days later He rose to life (resurrection) defeating the power of death. Believe, and you will be saved!
We are all sinful. We all deserve the consequence of sin- death.
Jesus is what saves us from the sin we all have in our bodies. And one day, he’ll even give us a new body.
Knowing God’s rules is not enough—our hearts must obey Him.
Hypocrisy dishonors God.
Labels and outward signs can’t save us.
True followers are changed by the Holy Spirit on the inside.
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.